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      Welcome to MELTING THE DRAGON!

      Melting the Dragon Healer Tonia Hafter BIO_picWith over 3 decades in the healing arts, Tonia Hafter has developed an eclectic approach to massage and healing. Her early explorations in Asian medicine led her to study Shiatsu, Chinese Medicine, Thai Massage, Chi Nei Tsang and Taoist Medicinal Nutrition and Cooking. Tonia received her certification as a Tui Na Medical Massage Therapist from the American College of Traditional Chinese Medicine in 2001. Soon thereafter, she began her studies of Wuji Gong and Qigong healing with Grandmaster Fu Wei Zhong in California. The next year, she went to Thailand to study Thai Massage and study Reiki. Tonia continued her Reiki studies in India and in 2006, she was accredited as a Reiki Master in Granada, Spain.

      A dedication and passion to the healing arts has taken her far and wide to experience other modalities that she integrates into her healing sessions. Travels, studies and personal experiences in Mexico, India, Europe and Thailand have provided her a travelers wisdom and a deeper understanding of the human psyche. Her healing approach is culled from Taoist meditations, shamanic healing sounds and visualizations, TCM (Traditional Chinese Medicine) theory, Energy Healing and Qigong practices that help to unify the physical body with the mind and spirit. She now fuses these tools with her innate intuitive healing gifts and light energy into a holistic approach that she calls MELTING THE DRAGON.

      MELTING THE DRAGON
      An alchemical process transforming one’s deepest pains and fears into useful, enjoyable and powerful life energy.

      Melting the Dragon is a holistic approach encompassing physical therapy, energy healing, massage, breathwork and sounding. Tonia works with you to treat chronic and acute pain and discomfort due to accidents, sports injuries, repetitive stress, emotional pain, trauma and overwork. Tonia strives to provide you with a proper and complete healing approach in accordance with your needs and personal preferences. Treatments may be done in English, Spanish and French.

      Customized Classes in Qigong, Massage and Reiki are available on request for groups based on specific needs.

      Personal coaching to support your healing may include:

      • Customized Qigong and Yoga exercises
      • Self Massage techniques
      • Personalized guided meditations
      • TCM nutritional counseling for healing
      • Reprogramming Breathwork

      Melting the Dragon P1070339Make an agreement with yourself to pay attention to your intuition, to your body sensations, and to your own antenna. As you go through the exciting and emotional process of casting off layers, you will change and you will find your needs will change. It is a journey of learning to trust your own intuition.

      The beginning of ones healing process starts with your decision to embark on the journey. Meet someone in whose presence you can grow and heal. You may seek different helpers along the way towards the light. We find our truth through that inner knowing, not necessarily through logic. Trust your intuition, trust your guts. And you will find your helper.

      Rates:

      • 90 minute session: $160- $180. Series of 5 sessions: $700.
      • All sessions include personalized coaching.

      * My preference is to do 90 min sessions. Feel free to call to discuss your situation.
      * All of my sessions include Reiki and Energy Healing unless otherwise specified by you.

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      Therapeutic Massage

       

      Therapeutic Massage

      Tui Na

      Therapeutic Massage bana1 - 400Tui Na is the 3rd Branch of Chinese Medicine. Mother of most modern massage modalities, Tui Na can relieve acute chronic pain of the joints, bones, muscles and tendons caused by injuries, surgery, or stress. Used locally, rather than as a full body technique, it is used to increase range of motion, relieve headaches, and pain to the neck, back, shoulder, and legs. Tui Na practitioners utilize vigorous techniques of acupressure, stretching, shaking and rotation to break up stagnation and free blockages of Qi and blood to restore movement and stimulate blood circulation.
      Good for mind, body, and spirit! Very energizing!

      Chi Nei Tsang

      Sometimes called applied Qigong, Chi Nei Tsang addresses the chi of the internal organs. Thus it is often identified with abdominal massage though we access the energy of the organs through the back as well. The belly is the brain of the body, storing a lifetime of memories and experiences and the emotions associated with them in the connective tissue and internal organs between skin and bones. This work is subtle, and over time can be quite profound, helping the student to release old patterns and traumas connecting the conscious with the unconscious.

      Shiatsu

      Originating in Japan, Shiatsu is a healing system concentrating on balancing the body through acupressure. “Shi” (finger) and “atsu” (pressure) is applied with thumbs, fingers and palms to the body’s energy pathways meridians and incorporates stretching.

      Thai Massage

      Originating in India and based on ayurvedic yoga, Thai Massage combines muscle compression, joint mobilization, stretching and acupressure along the meridians to energize and balance the body. Often the practitioner seems as if they are helping the other to be in positions similar to yoga asanas.

      Testimonials

       

      Testimonials of Clients and Students

      • Tonia is very knowledgeable about various forms of therapy, and she has studied them around the world. She helped me a great deal: showing me healing techniques and meditation I can use myself and provided great insight into how I can care for my well-being and become more balanced. She has an intuitive understanding of what needed to be done and listened to my needs. In addition, she is patient and kind and it is very pleasant to work with her. She is a person of great heart and of gentle touch. I can recommend her, without any reservations, to anyone who wishes to work on mental and physical improvement. I have learned much I can use every day.
        Henry Fesler, El Sobrante, CA
      • THANK YOU TONIA for a refreshing, healing, wonderful body massage. It was a great healing and learning session for me and I am deeply grateful.
        Richard Kalman, Berkeley, CA
      • I felt great after our session, I felt a furthering of great release of toxic emotions and substances from my body, it was a truly amazing experience for me. Every millisecond I was feeling and seeing things differently than I’ve ever been able to before, seeing images in my mind that I’ve never been able to reach before. I have been feeling ever since our first session more and more relaxed, more at ease, and I’ve been paying close attention to my belly button’s shape! I can now feel right away when my body starts tensing up and when things are out of balance and I believe our sessions have been so very beneficial to my health and thank you so much for helping me with my journey.
        A. R. L.
      • Yesterday when I sat down to play, my fingers and arms felt very free. Usually there is a whole lot of stiffness to get through. My back didn’t get tired all day, it was very unusual. I stretched and moved around. When I was working on math, I got tight, but then the tightness went away when I went on to something else.
        Thanks so much,
        Gael – musician cellist
      • Doniphan “Oh really, you have a great light, as in mystical, touch.”
      • Elana “Thank you for the amazing healing session yesterday. You are super-tuned-in and gifted and it was amazing and powerful and beautiful and exactly what I needed! Thank you also for teaching me the tools I can use at home!!”
      • For past few year, once a week (Tuesdays) a small group of us have been getting together during a lunch break to exercise. It seems that we have all been feeling beneficial results with our latest instructor/teacher Tonia Hafter. The one hour of Qi Gong practice is very helpful for energy re-charging, de-stressing and all kinds of dis-ease prevention.
        Milada Machova
        Paintings Conservator
        Oakland Museum of CA
      • Dear Tonia, I want to thank you again for your workshop. The practices I learned from you have revitalized my life and deepened my connection to my personal divine source.
        Tori Rose,
        Norman, Oklahoma

      TCM Nutritional Counseling

       

      Traditional Chinese Medicine Nutritional Counseling

      SONY DSCTCM Nutritional Counseling empowers you to find a good balance for your own constitution and your present condition, so you can do something to be as healthy as you wish. Based on Taoist nutritional theory, yin yang theory and food energetics, I assist you with the tools to make your own choices for your own situation.

      TCM nutrition is an approach to using food as fuel or in the case of humans, medicine. Meats, vegetables, fruits, nuts, seeds and grains all have different energetic properties. Sugars, spices, herbs, even different alcoholic drinks have different energetics. Depending on your constitution, your activities, your environment, the time you sleep and if you are exercising, your nutritional needs will vary and it’s good to be aware of how your decisions affect how you are feeling mentally and physically.

      You may come to see me for chronic shoulder pain or for belly discomfort, or for sciatica, which may be treated with bodywork. When appropriate, I often help you to explore what the source of the pain may be offering a complete treatment approach to bring you more comfort and energy. This may take changing your morning routine or reviewing your shopping list. Your treatment will be far more effective if I can offer you something to help you make informed decisions about how you nourish yourself. People tend to eat exactly what is exacerbating their problem.

      Common scenarios:
      A young woman complains of feeling cold all the time, especially at night. She also suffers from feeling bloated and lacking energy, but she is so happy to be keeping her weight low she eats lots of salads and yogurt and cold vegetarian fare. I may suggest adding in more spice to her diet, more cooked foods, and less dairy products.

      Someone with sciatica for instance may realize during our session that they are in fact a little angry about one thing or another. They might find that decreasing their intake of coffee and other dehydrating foods and increasing a green leafy dish to their menu might be helpful to reduce tension and tightness in their tendons.

      The body and mind find a harmony between pure yang and pure yin. This state of equilibrium can be balanced with food and drink when we understand more about food energetics which traditional chinese medicine offers.

      Self Healing

       

      Self Healing

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      MELTING THE DRAGON: Our intentions work towards:

      • Dissolving blockages, clearing fears
      • Expanding outer and inner consciousness
      • Arousing inner power, waking up
      • Enhancing perception, trusting intuition
      • Entering your dream space

      Self Massage – Anmo

      Learn methods that empower you to take care of yourself. Address general health issues such as headaches, insomnia, gastro-intestinal discomfort, muscle cramps, nausea, fatigue, PMS, prevention of breast and bowel problems, anxiety, and more.
      Anmo massage and self Chi Nei Tsang affect your body’s energy pathways (meridians) by using specific points and movements, and breath techniques useful to relieve pain and nourish the body and mind.

      Qigong and Wuji Gong Theory and Practice

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      Qigong (or ch’i kung) is an internal Chinese meditative practice which often uses slow graceful movements and controlled breathing techniques to promote the circulation of qi within the human body, and enhance a practitioner’s overall health. There are also many forms of Qigong that are done with little or no movement at all, in standing, sitting and supine positions. Likewise, not all forms of Qigong use breath control techniques. Although not a martial art, Qigong is often confused with the Chinese martial art of Tai Chi. This misunderstanding can be attributed to the fact that most Chinese martial arts practitioners will usually also practice some form of Qigong. And to the uninitiated, these arts may seem to be alike. There are more than 10,000 styles of Qigong and 200 million people practicing these methods. There are three main reasons why people do Qigong:

      • To gain strength, improve health or reverse a disease
      • To gain skill working with qi, so as to become a healer
      • To become more connected with the “Tao, God, True Source, Great Spirit”, for a more meaningful connection with nature and the universe.

      Self Healing REIKI-2_TIn its simplest form, the Chinese character for qi, in Qigong, can mean air, breath, or “life force”. Gong means work, so Qigong is therefore the practice of “working” with ones “life force”. The term was not widely known until the 1970s during a period some call the “Qigong Wave” where groups of 10,000-40,000 people regularly gathered inside Chinese stadiums to practice Qigong together. Some leaders in the Chinese government became concerned that one quasi religious/political group known as Falun Dafa or Falun Gong who practiced a Qigong form of their own, might turn into a political weapon. In 1999, the government banned all large Qigong gatherings. Currently there is a movement underway in China, the United States, and Europe to preserve the valuable aspects of these traditional Chinese practices and to have them studied using Western scientific methods.

      Attitudes toward a scientific basis for Qigong vary markedly. Most Western medical practitioners and many practitioners of traditional Chinese medicine, as well as the Chinese government, view Qigong as a set of breathing and movement exercises with possible benefits to health through stress reduction and exercise. Other practitioners view Qigong in more metaphysical terms, claiming that qi can be felt as a vibration or electrical current and physically circulated through channels called meridians. Many testify to a reduction or elimination of pain through the use of Qigong.

      Reiki

       

      Reiki

      Reiki P1070560 300x449Reiki is the Japanese word for Universal Life Energy; an unconditional energy of a spiritual origin common to all beings, able to heal the body, mind, spirit and soul. Reiki affects both the physical and energetic levels of the body, affecting each person uniquely. Many traditional cultures have different names for this energetic healing with Universal Energy.
      Reiki is non-invasive and loving.

      The basis of Reiki is in the vibratory nature of the universe.
      When you become a Reiki practitioner, you become a channel for yourself and for others to receive healing energy from a “higher source” or a divine source. This happens because you are attuned to a higher frequency. Some call this universal energy. With the attunement, our ability to tune into messages on every level of consciousness increases, and with it our ability to help ourselves and assist others to heal physical, emotional, mental and spiritual dis-ease.

      In my Reiki classes I include instruction to prepare your body to be still, a quality necessary to be able to transmit Reiki energy.

      • Practices to control the breath and clear the mind
      • Self massage and qigong to activate the meridians and restore energy
      • Vocalizations which help move the energy

      “We must practice receiving guidance for ourselves before we are qualified to receive it for others”
      Barbara Brannan

      Reiki P1070535 300x449Calling on Reiki is being open to the wisdom of the universe. We don’t control the healing process, no matter how well intentioned we may be. Healing may well be different from what one imagines or what one hopes to expect. If we are open to receiving Reiki, then we agree to be open to the healing and learning we receive in the process. That is your agreement in becoming a Reiki channel. You open yourselves to a higher source for your healing in whatever way it may come. It may manifest in the physical, the emotional, the mental or the spiritual aspect of our being. Healing may take place in the present, just as it may clean karmas accumulated in the past or it may affect something in the future. When we call on Reiki, we ask for the soul level, for our highest good, for our highest self….then we let go and be open to the guidance that is given.

      Reiki Initiations

      I offer levels one and two Reiki at this time. Reiki techniques are integrated into all my techniques and massages.

      Retreats and Vacations

       

      Healing Retreats and Vacations

      Healing Retreats and Vacations SEANature Retreats of practice and play; instruction in static and moving qigong, self massage, movement, circle singing
      Place: South of France in rural Camargue
      Date: Month of June

      Imagine going to a place, a simple place, a beautiful place, where there are no cell phones or wifi connections, no roar of traffic, no lights to mask the sparkle of the stars. Just wild pigs, big bulls, migrating birds. Wake up to communal qigong practice, yoga class and meditation.

      Wander the marshes on a bicycle, meditate on immense skies, catch the flight of migrating pink flamingos overhead. Nurture your being with the quiet sounds of nature, a breath of relief that smells of the Mediterranean.

      Our retreat is about balance, personal time, communal time, meditation and movement, dancing and drinking with the locals, and side trips to sacred spaces in Provence. Hikes with meals in local taverns, circle singing and vocal improv in ancient spaces of acoustic excellence. Bathe in vibration and awareness, let go of expectations and allow spontaneity.

      Evening parties, local flamenco evening vocal and body improv classes of circle singing, body percussion, vocal improv, toning.
      Find your own voice among friends. Experience egoless improv. Challenge your self.
      Self massage instruction. Walks, bicycling, local field trips.
      Reiki initiation and practice for those interested.

      Qigong

       

      Qigong

      QIGONG ANMO3 200X112Qigong literally means the practice of cultivating life force energy. The word Qi is interpreted as energy or life force. Qi is the same as Universal energy, Prana in Hindi, and Ruach in Hebrew. Gong refers to working at something, or practicing something, which is then cultivated by that practice. The word Qigong is also found written as: Qi gong, Chi Kung or Chi Gung. Qigong is practiced traditionally in China for three different intentions:

      • Qigong for martial arts training
      • Spiritual Qigong
      • Medical Qigong

      Qigong for martial arts training builds concentration, force and the ability to manipulate qi.

      Spiritual Qigong prepares a person for enlightenment. These practices are more internal.

      Medical Qigong is practiced to prevent dis-ease, strengthen the organs, enhance protective qi, calm the mind and heal the body from dis-ease, bringing it into a state of balance. Medical Qigong is not only used for treatment of dis-harmony. It is also useful for longevity and prevention. Preventive treatment is often seen as more important in ancient Chinese philosophy. Traditional Chinese Medicine views health as a balanced state of yin and yang in the mind, body, and spirit, known as Shen.

      Medical Qigong is employed to:

      • Eliminate or balance excessive negative emotions like anger, grief, worry, and fear, which would harm the body if left untreated.
      • Balance external pathogens coming from the environment, such as Cold, Heat, Dryness, and Dampness, to purify the human body.
      • Balance a person’s Qi by either increasing their Qi or decreasing the influences of pathogens to counteract the imbalanced condition within the internal organs and channels.
      • Regulate and balance the client’s Yin and Yang energy, bringing it back into harmony.
      • Relieve pain
      • Detoxification
      • Correct internal organ dysfunctions
      • Strengthen bodily resistance
      • Promote circulation of Qi, Blood and Shen

      Medical Qigong therapy includes different modalities:

      Distance Healing requires the Qigong practitioner to manipulate a client’s Qi by focusing on the energetic properties of the client’s channels, collaterals, and points, as well as internal organs. This is done from a distance of several inches, several feet or even several miles away.

      Self-Healing Qigong, also called Qigong Prescriptions and Client Homework, are Qigong exercises. They consist of postures, movements, sound vibrations, and visualizations. They are given to clients by a practitioner. Clients use these Qigong techniques to regulate their own health in support of the treatment, using various lying, sitting, moving and standing postures. The clients may also use meditation techniques or their own spiritual belief system as a healing tool.

      Qigong Bodywork Therapy or Energy healing is a soft-tissue regulation technique. It differs from Anmo or Tuina, the Chinese External Bodywork Therapy, in that the practitioner’s hand skims the client’s energy body with a very light touch. The light skimming action is used to dredge the client’s external channel Qi, causing energy to be released from the internal channels themselves which serve as pathways for Qi transference.

      Sound Resonation Therapy or sound healing, can be used in Medical Qigong for breaking up energetic stagnations. It requires the practitioner to project sound vibration deep into the client’s tissues. When the resonate sound penetrates the client’s body it causes massive chaotic vibrational patterns that disrupt the body’s normal energetic flow. This energetic disruption softens and liquefies the client’s stagnant Qi and is the primary reason why clients are given healing sound therapy homework prescriptions.

      Invisible Needle Therapy involves the visualization of imaginary needles of light being inserted into specific points on the client’s body. This can also be achieved by inserting actual needles into a model of a human being at particular acupoints. This is done with the same intention that one would have in doing an actual acupuncture session on the person’s body. The actual needles or the needles of light are used to stimulate and direct the client’s Qi. Although this sounds very similar to a technique used in voodoo, invisible needle therapy is done to heal without any other confusing intentions.

      Shen Gong Therapy offers patients a safe and effective way to rid themselves of years of painful toxic emotions that otherwise can cause mental and physical illness.

      Dao Yin Therapy combines breathing techniques with physical movement, and creative visualization to improve the patient’s health. These specific energetic techniques use the knowledge of the body’s internal organ systems as well as internal and external energy fields to:

      • Purge: Remove excess conditions, break up stagnations and remove toxins
      • Tonify: Strengthen deficient conditions and weak organs
      • Regulate: Balance and harmonize the body’s Jing, Qi, Blood, Body Fluids, and Shen

      Medical Qigong is often combined with other techniques, such as acupuncture and herbal treatments. in addition, Medical Qigong can include counseling and consulting. Through the conversation, a Qigong practitioner works on clients with his tone, his voice and his energy.

      The Medical Qigong classes include energetic anatomy and physiology, diagnosis and symptomology, energetic psychology, Qigong pathology, Medical Qigong therapy, as well as a survey of other related medical modalities. The other related modalities include a comprehensive understanding of herbal medicine, acupuncture therapy, Chinese massage, Asian dietary therapy, and Western Medicine anatomy and physiology.

      Medical Qigong Massage

      Depending on the strength and direction of hand, the power sinking into the body differs. Consequently some reach only the skin, some to the pulses, muscle and even marrow. The effects of medical Qigong massage have been affirmed by people who have experienced it. They report the relieving of the bones and muscles, detumescence, acesodyne, adjusting dislocation of the joints, and removal of muscle spasms.

      Besides massages for healing the body, there are also massages for keeping fit. Kneading the acupoints around eyes can give you good eyesight. Massaging simply and exactly on the three acupoints of head can quickly relax yourself. Massaging the feet, known as reflexology in the west, can reflect the effects on all parts of the human body. The feet have a close relationship with the whole body and are known as the ‘second heart’.

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